Just me...

wake-up-kid:

It is often said, “What happens in fandom, stays in fandom.” There are some things we are not supposed to talk about, things we are expected to keep hidden, because even though we rarely admit it, the idea of “fandom” carries with it a certain amount of shame and an expectation of judgment. For a long time, I wore that shame and sought to avoid judgment. 

When I would attend events and people would mention Tumblr a bit too loudly, or reference a forum, or say, “Did you see that post?” I would get anxious, my eyes would dart around, and I would wonder who had heard and what they were thinking. 

Lower your voice, we can’t talk about that here.

What will people think?

We don’t want to be seen as crazy fangirls/boys.

Recently, that all changed and I have the fandom to thank.

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spiffyrock21:

“i don’t hate homosexuals, i just don’t think that they should—”